Two years ago at this time I was working on the video invitation to Mendel's Upshernish. The slideshow is based on the song “father, please tell me" which is playing in the background. It was only a few weeks later that I realized the little change that Mendel had done to the lyrics of the song...
In one part of the song the child pleads:
Father please tell me , what does G-d intend,
Will this long bitter exile soon come to an end,
Or must we continue to suffer and grieve,
Father please tell me, what should I believe.
Mendel, however, instead of “or must we continue to suffer and grieve" sang "or must we continue to softer and green"...
Isn’t this a sum up of our generation in comparison to just two or three generation ago? Children growing up for about two thousand years of Jewish history knew all about suffering for their Jewishness. How amazing is it that we live in a time and place when children don't know about the daily difficulties of the Jewish bitter exile, when suffering is not part of their Jewish experience.
But there is also a call here. When you think about the sacrifices our ancestors did to stay Jewish, to be connected to their faith and heritage, so their children should know who they are, even at the price of "suffer and grieve”, shouldn't we make more effort in a time when our daily concern is all about "softer and green"?!...

Sheila Thompson wrote...
Ed Fitch wrote...
Thank you for another thoughtful story in "the adventures of the Kaplan Kinder". Shabbat Shalom from Ottawa.
P.S. Regards from R. Chaim Mendelsohn; we sat together at a chassidishe wedding this week.
Elisabeth Gelb wrote...
With insight into your dear Mendel's words, you have pinpointed our Jewish history with precision. We have experienced the 'suffer and grieve' and the 'softer and green'. At the peak of many celebrations, we recall a past destruction. Is this part of what makes us unique? Is this why we have endured while other ancients have vanished? As always, your insights trigger more reflection... Shabbat Shalom
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